But it’s really best to ask first, rather than giving someone a sweet and salty surprise. You could ask your partner before-hand in a general chit-chat about cum, or, as you’re about to shoot your load. If you’re on the receiving end and you don’t want to swallow his cum – but you’d like to feel it in or around your mouth, one tip would be to open wide and put your tongue out.
This gives him a soft landing area to aim for, and you can avoid it potentially getting deeper inside your mouth, or at the back of your throat (which can sting a bit and maybe even give you a croaky voice for half an hour if you end up swallowing some). It’s intimate, and potentially a way of telling someone you’re really into them. Dramatically spitting out a guy’s cum combined with the retching sound you make when you taste something bad can dent self-esteem and make things awkward. So, think about what you’re going to do with it before-hand. Guys can be very sensitive about what their partner does with their load. ‘Snowballing’ is when you pass a guy’s cum back into their mouth, either via kissing or spitting. This can go back and forth a number of times, and if you’re in a group situation, between multiple partners.
